i feel like ppl think being nb means ur agender… like no it literally means u dont fit well into the binary of man or woman. it doesnt mean ur entirely disconnected from gender…. u can be fem alligned or masc alligned and ur still nb…. even if ur primally fem aligned and afab or vica versa w being amab… and being afab but transmasc etc is also fine…. and switching between all of these? also fine… nb is a gigantic umbrella term for literally any kind of noncis and nontrans person so ofc there can be nb wlw and mlm like…. hello…. stop policing ppls identities
nonbinary is a complete gender. you can be just nonbinary. you really don’t have to align yourself any more specifically than that
you don’t have to find the perfect just right word for your experience, you don’t have to parse out what named gender you’re closest to on a spectrum, what subset of nonbinary most closely reflects your truth, weigh your masculinity against your femininity against your androgyny to see what the total comes out to, you don’t have to label your gender by its relation or opposition to the gender you were assigned
all those things are great for exploring your gender & if you can find a home in them more power to you
but you don’t have to. you really can just be nonbinary
A diary webcomic series based on the author’s personal experiences with gender identity and some of the bizarre things people have said to them. Created by Jams, a non-binary illustrator from the UK (they/them). Often autobiographical, very rarely serious.
My gender webcomic got featured!! Click the title to check it out, a lot of the artwork gets reblogged onto here eventually but I’d still really appreciate the support 🙂
im not here on this earth to argue with cis people, or justify myself, or debate about my identity with strangers. im here for other nonbinary people who feel the same way and also to drink some real good smoothies
no offense but nonbinary ppl can have boobs…..nonbinary ppl can have long hair, wear dresses, use makeup, have beards, be tall or short, muscular, thin, or curvy……there is literally no wrong way to be nonbinary
Shoutout to all my closeted trans and nonbinary followers. You and your gender are still valid, even if others are not aware. I hope you stay safe and have a nice day.