gothshoujo:

gothshoujo:

i feel like ppl think being nb means ur agender… like no it literally means u dont fit well into the binary of man or woman. it doesnt mean ur entirely disconnected from gender…. u can be fem alligned or masc alligned and ur still nb…. even if ur primally fem aligned and afab or vica versa w being amab… and being afab but transmasc etc is also fine…. and switching between all of these? also fine… nb is a gigantic umbrella term for literally any kind of noncis and nontrans person so ofc there can be nb wlw and mlm like…. hello…. stop policing ppls identities

anyone can rb this btw!

crpl-pnk:

nonbinary is a complete gender. you can be just nonbinary. you really don’t have to align yourself any more specifically than that

you don’t have to find the perfect just right word for your experience, you don’t have to parse out what named gender you’re closest to on a spectrum, what subset of nonbinary most closely reflects your truth, weigh your masculinity against your femininity against your androgyny to see what the total comes out to, you don’t have to label your gender by its relation or opposition to the gender you were assigned

all those things are great for exploring your gender & if you can find a home in them more power to you

but you don’t have to. you really can just be nonbinary

altfire:

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc it’s easier

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc it’s safer

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc they don’t feel like they can pull off anything else

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc presenting as their real gender is impossible

shoutout to nonbinary people who present as their assigned gender bc they want to

shoutout to nonbinary people whose presentation is mistaken for their assigned gender but is in fact how they express their real gender

just because we might “look cis” doesn’t make us any less nonbinary and tbh fuck anyone who says otherwise

jammyscribbler:

lgbtwebcomics:

My Gender Adventures

A diary webcomic series based on the author’s personal experiences with gender identity and some of the bizarre things people have said to them. Created by Jams, a non-binary illustrator from the UK (they/them). Often autobiographical, very rarely serious.

My gender webcomic got featured!! Click the title to check it out, a lot of the artwork gets reblogged onto here eventually but I’d still really appreciate the support 🙂

cat-pun:

gender: a collection of thoughts and feelings

im not here on this earth to argue with cis people, or justify myself, or debate about my identity with strangers. im here for other nonbinary people who feel the same way and also to drink some real good smoothies