roachpatrol:

roachpatrol:

roachpatrol:

imagine lemony snicket narrating your transition, though.

Rachel said, “I’m cis, but—” a phrase which here means ‘I have a very large surprise waiting for me later in life’. 

“Perhaps you have been influenced by all the transtrenders,” opined Mrs Scorseby. ‘Transtrenders’ here refers to a small group of people who, for reasons quite beyond Mrs Scorseby, enjoy dressing up in particular sorts of specialized undergarments and avoiding various gristly and untimely demises at the hands of local gender authorities.’

Gender is a very complicated business for some people. Many people live their whole lives as the same gender they started with, in the same way many people are fortunate enough to remain in the same house in which they were born, a house which never burns down or goes into foreclosure or finds itself due to be invaded by mysterious operatives with nefarious purposes. But some rare and unlucky people wake up one day to an urgent and undeniable phone call, and after that there is simply nothing else to do but throw anything that comes to hand into a rucksack and take off for the Scottish highlands in a false beard. 

nitrosplicer:

damnitmiles:

nitrosplicer:

So I just heard about “Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Trans Men and the Men Who Dig Them.” It’s the first sexual health resource written by and for gay, bi and queer trans men/ transmasculine people, put out by Rainbow Health Ontario, and it’s a very frank guide that answers basically any questions you might have about safer sex. They’ve released it for free download here.

A similar

guide geared towards trans women/ transfeminine people (though not really sexual orientation specific) is “BRAZEN: Trans Women’s Safer Sex Guide.”

^^^

Alternative responses when someone asks you whether you’re a boy or girl:

babblingfishes:

  • equally-confused shrugging
  • “about 20%”
  • return the question, acting intrigued and interested with their answer
  • take out your id card and squint at it for a couple minutes before admitting that you forgot your glasses
  • lean in and whisper “I wonder the same thing daily”
  • ask numerous detailed questions about which gender involves [insert quality], then make them wait a while as you tally up the points on your fingers

laughlikesomethingbroken:

areeceyafterlife:

 My favourite thing about the whole ‘no man of woman born’ thing is that it applies to a very broad church.

 For example:

  •  People born via c-section (no man of woman born, meaning natural childbirth, aka, the Shakespeare approach)
  •  Women (no man of woman born, aka, the Tolkein approach)
  •  Non-binary types (see above)
  •  Aliens (no man of woman born, with the meaning of man being in the ‘mankind’ sense)
  • Artificial intelligences (see above again)
  • Transmen (no man of woman born, the man-ness appears to come later as gender is a social construct. Arguably borderline, I know.)
  • People carried by a man (no man of woman born)
  • People grown in vats (no man of woman born)

 Basically, anyone who isn’t a human cisgendered male delivered via natural childbirth by a woman could kill Macbeth. (Given the equipment via science!, the child of a transwoman born via natural childbirth would still count as unable to.)

 It’s odd that you can divide mankind into ‘Macbeth killers’ and everyone else, even though everyone else is in the minority, especially if aliens are real and we create AIs capable of murdering Scottish kings.

there are two genders: macbeth killers and macbeth

typicalacademic:

nightpool:

typicalacademic:

nightpool:

typicalacademic:

Hi everybody, quick request: I need a complete ontology of gender for tomorrow to explain things to my therapist. Let me know what the consensus is.

gender is like a cup

explain

holds qualia

#has 2 dimensions #the amount of liquid in the cup and which liquid is in the cup #where which liquid is in the cup isn’t actually a dimension its another property with an unenumberable number of dimensions #anyway

ah, this must be the gender fluid I’ve heard so much about