been thinking about that one post that went like “forgive me father for i am back on my bullshit” and you know what, that’s a really theologically sound understanding.
like the modern concept of ‘sin’ is so melodramatic, and it’s almost totally wrong. people think of it like a felony conviction, like you gotta Pay and you’re a bad person. but really it’s more like “man quit that shit, it’s not good for you.”
for example, gluttony’s not a sin because some arbitrary metaphysical balance is tipped by it and dumps you into the reject bin. it’s a sin because an unhealthy relationship with food messes up your life and can make things rough on the people around you. back when all the texts got written, scarcity was a big deal, and there was this cultural Thing of overeating so much you had to go puke so you could eat more. nowdays it’s stuff like being such a foodie that you pay outlandish prices for hyped up ingredients, or molding your life around ‘cleanses’ and the latest ‘superfood’. it doesn’t make you evil. you’re not a bad person. it’s just a huge drain on your resources and it distracts you from just living life and being a human being.
but people call anything chocolate ‘sinful’ and then think it’s virtuous and wholesome to restrict their calorie intake until their body screams for mercy, or to insist on the whole foods equivalent of wolf nipple chips because that’s more ‘clean eating’ than the foods the proletariat have access to.
i most of all wish we could get away from labeling anything genuinely sexy as ‘lustful’ and treating healthy sexuality as a bad thing, while not recognizing that the harvey weinsteins of the world are what the sin of lust is actually talking about.
being really into your datemate is not even slightly sinful. referring to attractive people at a club as a ‘catalog’ as if they’re products you can just decide to obtain, that’s where you start heading wrong.
tl;dr: the popular imagination has ‘sin’ completely backwards.
i think that most ‘sins’ are, at the most basic level, pursuing your own self-centered, short-term satisfaction over any larger common good, because that’s what breaks societies down. virtues are just the other way around: altruisitic, long-term work for others, even at an individual’s expense.
so like, the sin of gluttony: when people in a society are starving and others have so much money and food and toys and land they couldn’t ever even touch all of it in their lifetime but they keep on taking more and more for themselves, that society collapses. temperance, prudence, and charity are all about making sure everyone’s needs are met before any individual pleasures are addressed, and that society does a lot better, less people die.
lust? if someone only cares about satisfying their own sexual desires, at the expense of everyone else, we all know how badly that goes. wrath? when people act out their anger issues instead of resolving them, you get feuds, mass shootings, wars. pride? vainglory? no one likes having to deal with those shitheads. don’t be those shitheads. despair? sloth? no one likes hauling the dead weight of people who have given up, either, who wallow around in their pain and helplessness. try to have hope and contribute something to the world.
like, a society is always going to encourage prosocial behavior and discourage antisocial behavior, because if it doesn’t, that society will dissolve. the seven deadly sins don’t even have to be deadly on a spiritual ‘you’ll burn in hell’ level, they’re disastrous on a very mundane, real-world level too.
come to think of it, if you’re mindful of being part of a society, of being in some way responsible for other people’s wellbeing, the sins and virtues / dos and donts…. just seem kind of obvious? and making people remember they’re part of a bigger group and have more of a purpose than just individual self- indulgence is basically what organized religion is for. so that’s kind of cool.
You know maybe the reason a certain stripe of people see two dudes whose entire character dynamic is constant antagonism and immediately make them the most popular ship in the fandom is because they were raised on media where constant antagonism is treated as the basis of sexual tension for het couples. You know, the “theyre picking on you because they like you” train of thought? and probably they either never learned to tell the difference or they’re willing to excuse it if it’s in the name of an m/m ship
1. Only proper writers should write. Only proper artists should make art. Only proper singers should sing. And so on and so forth. Make sure to find a definition of ‘proper’ that excludes you, so that you have to stop. You can propagate this idea by telling others that yes, you are a little bitter, but you know that it was for the best.
2. It doesn’t look very far on the map, you can totally walk. So the temperature is a little different and there may not actually be a path and you’re not sure quite what the stuff marked on the map round there actually means and you may be a little jetlagged by that point, so what?
3. Sometimes the truth hurts. Therefore obviously if something hurts, it must be true. It being possible to find almost any opinion on the internet if you look hard enough, you should show your commitment to the truth by seeking out whatever hurts most and affording it special time and attention.
4. The best cure for unrequited love is to just do what that guy did in that romantic comedy to win the heart of the girl who didn’t seem so into him. That will totally work.
5. Show you are a good-natured, easy to get on with person by not having wants, boundaries or negative emotions. The best people are never upset or angry about anything.
6. Show your commitment to equality by inviting everyone to everything. In particular, you should always strive to invite equal numbers of people who like quiet activities and those who prefer loud ones, people you have been warned about and the people who warned you about them, and those who have had a bad breakup and their exes.
7. If someone asks politely for something, you should give it to them, no matter what it is.
8. When someone is trying something for the first time it is important to be completely appreciative and supportive of their efforts, to not criticise and, if the activity just so happens to be barbecuing chicken, to eat the pink bits and cross your fingers.
i feel like many of my friends need to see this, specifically, they need to notice that it is captioned bad advice.
Apparently this is a running gag in math textbooks
Oh, no, my friend, @aceyuurikatsuki . It’s not just that. It is so much more. Settle down and let your friendly neighborhood x-ray tech explain you a thing.
Throckmorton’s Sign, otherwise known as Throckmorton’s Principle, does in fact have to do with dicks. Because it is fairly normal for a dick to show up on a hip or pelvis x-ray. But the thing about Throckmorton’s Sign is, it’s not just that the dick is visible. It is a legitimate diagnostic tool.
Let me explain: let’s say a person equipped with a penis is in a car accident and has right leg and right side hip/pelvic pain. Their doctor will order x-rays. Unfortunately, sometimes fractures are so small that they can be missed, or, because the patient is in such bad shape and the images obtained aren’t the best quality, the radiologist can’t be sure for one reason or another if what they’re seeing is actually a fracture.
So what do they do? They look for the dick.
You heard me correctly. The dick.
Throckmorton’s Sign is when “the penis points to the area of pain.” So if the above-mentioned AMAB patient’s xray aren’t displaying a clear, obvious fracture, but their dick is pointing to the right side, 9 times out of 10, the injury or fracture is on the right hip or leg area, so then the radiologist will focus on that side while reading.
Now I know what my non-radiology followers are thinking. “Ace, this sounds like bullshit. This can’t be true. You’re lying through your teeth.” But I swear to you, it is 100% accurate. I have seen a positive Throckmorton’s Sign multiple times with my own eyes over the course of the past 7 years. Ask any x-ray tech, and they will probably agree with me.
Your dick is good for at least one thing, and that thing is helping a radiologist diagnose your upper femur, hip, or pelvic fracture.
SOFTCORE SOUTHERN ORGY, I WILL FIGHT, IT’S GONNA BE HARDCORE AT LEAST!
“inexperienced bee-filled cockwarming”
…I mean, for a random generator which is not, to my knowledge, theorized to have psychic powers, it seems suspiciously good at landing in my niche fandom cluster.
being touchstarved makes u absolutely buckwild when someone does smth simple like .share a chair with u
like having someone touch your hand with the tips of their fingers shouldn’t feel like So Much it shouldn’t feel like your whole body is going into anaphylactic shock but here we are. here we are.
ok 2 many of u relate
Someone gave me a compliment and reached out and squeezed my hand and I fell in love and couldn’t speak for several minutes