fun aromantic things: coming to terms with the fact that the majority of the people you love and care about will eventually create their own lives revolving around their marriage and/or children and even if you remain a significant part of their social circle your friendship will still just be a side dish to all of that
watching the notes increasing on this post is just a little bit heartbreaking
hey people APPRECIATE YOUR FRIENDS OKAY. don’t let this stuff happen for real.
hello yes i would like to gather up every aro person into a huge cuddle pile and shower them with love and affection and puppies
The delegates were appalled by the lack of gender equality in America. They found the U.S. to be lagging far behind international human rights standards in a number of areas, including its 23 percent gender pay gap, maternity leave, affordable child care and the treatment of female migrants in detention centers.
The most telling moment of the trip, the women told reporters on Friday, was when they visited an abortion clinic in Alabama and experienced the hostile political climate around women’s reproductive rights.
“We were harassed. There were two vigilante men waiting to insult us,” said Frances Raday, the delegate from the U.K. The men repeatedly shouted, “You’re murdering children!” at them as soon as they neared the clinic, even though Raday said they are clearly past childbearing age.
“It’s a kind of terrorism,” added Eleonora Zielinska, the delegate from Poland. “To us, it was shocking.”
In most European countries, she explained, abortions are performed at general doctors’ offices and hospitals that offer all kinds of other health services, so there aren’t protesters waiting to heckle the women who enter.
The women discovered during their visit that women in the United States have “missing rights” compared to the rest of the world. For instance, the U.S. is one of three countries in the world that does not guarantee women paid maternity leave. The U.N. suggests that countries guarantee at least 14 weeks of paid parental leave. Some countries go further – Iceland requires five months paid leave for each parent, and an additional two months to be shared between them.
“The lack of accommodation in the workplace to women’s pregnancy, birth and post-natal needs is shocking,” Raday said. “Unthinkable in any society, and certainly one of the richest societies in the world.”
Another main area of concern for the delegation is violence against women – particularly gun violence. Women are 11 times more likely to be killed by a gun in the United States than in other high-income countries, and most of those murdersare perpetrated by an intimate partner. While the Obama administration has talked a lot about combatting violence against women, its efforts have been frustrated by Congress’ inability to pass new federal gun restrictions.
While the delegates were shocked by many things they saw in the U.S., perhaps the biggest surprise of their trip, they said, was learning that women in the country don’t seem to know what they’re missing. “So many people really believe that U.S. women are way better off with respect to rights than any woman in the world,” Raday said. “They would say, ‘Prove it! What do you mean other people have paid maternity leave?’”
The US is so far behind in women’s rights, people don’t even believe that other countries allow Paid. Maternity. Leave. Good lord.
toxic 📢 friendships 📢 are 📢 just 📢 as 📢 traumatizing 📢 as 📢 relationships 📢📢📢
this gained 3k notes overnight and it makes me deeply upset how many ppl have been scarred by toxic friendships 2017 better b good to you all or imma beat its ass
honestly i believe that thorough studying of how this video managed to reach photorealistic-video-game-cutscene-uncanny-valley will bring us one huge step closer to making video games look like real life
knowing someone has frantically jerked it to this exact video has made my whole fucking night
i hate the fact that st*ve b*nnon wrote a failed shakespearean rap musical screenplay about the l.a. riots and that my horrified black ass wants to know more about it. oh my god.
you know it’s occurred to me that while i technically live with a human and a cat and a dog and go to college i can go literal days without touching another human being
if you identify as ace while still feeling sexual attraction sometimes your asexuality is valid! if you identify as ace while distancing yourself from the ace community your asexuality is valid!
if you identify as ace while having hypersexual intrusive thoughts your asexuality is valid! if you identify as ace for personal reasons such as trauma your asexuality is valid!
you do not have to adhere to the cishet ace community’s racist/ableist/transphobic/homophobic standards for your asexuality to be valid
wow ! sure is a good thing all aces are lgbt huh !