lipstickinmyvalentinowhitebag:

people who encourage calling the cops in case of domestic violence situations have obv never had the cops called in domestically violent situations.

they’ll arrest & endanger the victim’s ass too. especially if they’re nonwhite & undocumented, and almost always is detrimental. so  NO don’t encourage people to call 911 n ask for pepperoni pizza.

it’s better to document instances of abuse, HAVE A SAFETY PLAN, then leave and take legal action that you have control over. 

Raksha Inc has a really comprehensive safety planning guide. 
http://www.raksha.org/safety-planning/  

there are probably abuse shelters & advocacy centers in your area, please google and protect yourself and your loved ones properly. 

http://www.loveisrespect.org/  also has a call and online chat hotline & v v v good resources.